Women Who GET It: Meet Sun
January 27, 2008
Hello, I am a woman. I found this site by accident as I was looking for websites about men and what else I can learn about them. It is really something what our society is coming to. It’s getting harder and harder for us to have meaningful relationships…with anyone, let alone the opposite s*x! And marriage, well, it has become a mockery to a great number of people. A lot of women will not like what I have to say, but… I think feminism has hurt more than it has helped and a lot of these so called “strong” women really ARE mean! (And I’m not a young, horny male trying to “lay a hottie”. I am a young woman whose been stabbed in the back and kicked in the a*s enough times to not believe in this “sisterhood” c**p.)
I personally think it is a good arrangement to have the man as head of the household. I know that my opinion is biased. I grew up in a two parent household with a strong father and a loving mother. They have been married 40 years. They are so in sync with each other that it is almost as if they can read each others minds. Of course it didn’t happen over night. But it did because they were in agreement with what their roles where. (There is nothing demeaning about being a stay at home wife and mother. I grew up in a clean, safe environment, ate good home cooked food… and learned a lot about morals and character from my parents.)
Truthfully, the way things are nowadays, I’m not so sure marriage is a good idea either. There are a lot of embittered people out here…(and quite a few screwed up @#*$%!) But even in a companionship there should still be respect. I believe America’s wealth and greed encourage people to be more selfish and arrogant. And I believe feminism is making a lot of women lose their femininity! Instead of wanting to stand side by side with men and to love them and help them, they want to compete against them and subdue them! (Ironically, these are usually the same women who sit around complaining to their friends that they want a “real” man.)
As a woman I would like to be with someone… someday, funny thing is I’ve been told I’m gun shy (Hmmm, isn’t that what men are usually told?)… Anyway, I would be lying if I said I didn’t understand men’s anger and bitterness. Although there are a lot of nice young ladies out here, there are a lot of hard core @$#*& who have the ability to make both genders miserable! What makes me mad is that the good men and women who are out here have to put up with so much BS in order to find each other. Yikes! I didn’t mean to go on and on. You get the gist of how I feel and where I’m coming from.
Knowledge is power, and so is “real” love.