Comments on: Are Abuse Shelters Helping Deceitful Women?

By: Erica

Erica — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 20:31:38 +0000

The local abused women’s shelter in my area is looking for volunteers and I’m thinking of volunteering. How can I avoid being used and deceived like the people at the shelters mentioned above?

By: Curiepoint

Curiepoint — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 03:49:41 +0000

Shariff, get yourself the best lawyer you can. That’s about all anyone can tell you. He will likely not be able to fix it all, but he can minimize the pain if he’s good at what he does.

I would file an EPO of my own if I were you. Claim irrationality, claim her relatives threatened you, anything…it’s warfare, and you have to fight to win or get ground up in the machinery.

Get your head on your shoulders, and prepare.

I’m sorry but this is the best I can offer.

By: Shariff

Shariff — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 06:50:39 +0000

Hi I am in a bad situation. She lied about physical and verbal abuse. Then went to a domestic violence shelter. Now she claimed I violated the EPO and she has not allowed me to see my daughters for 9 weeks. I am depressed. All I care about is my kids. Please let me know how can I proove my innocence? I never touched the woman. And she is using the law to get to me, It’s all based on allegations! Please help!

By: Clare

Clare — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 20:12:55 +0000

Im not arguing that. But if the guy really is a slap happy c**k, no good can come from that relationship. Just like no good can come from a deceitful b***h using something like this to get even.

Sick. Just, sick.

Women like that deserve to be taken out back and shot.

By: John

John — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 15:19:41 +0000

Family law sucks…The police suck. If you’re a man you’re the bad guy.

I met a troubled woman who used to be a stripper and a drug addict. She had a criminal record and a history of alcoholism and p**********n in her family. I didn’t know much about her past when she became pregnant.

So after 1 year of hell, I obtained a court order in order to have custody of my little girls so that she wouldn’t be taken interstate. This woman called the police and fabricated allegations of domestic violence. I was arrested and photographed as a criminal. The ironic thing is I work for the Police myself! I never had any problems with the law, and this woman was able to manipulate not only the police but the family law system at her will.

Solicitors had recommended her to do so in order to gain custody of our daughter back.

The charges were dropped and I was given 1 year of good behaviour. I’m still with her playing possum. She apologized and wanted me back… once she got what she wanted.

I feared that if I left her then she wouldn’t have dropped the false claims. I almost lost my job and my daughter forever.

In February once the probation is over, I’m getting the hell out of here. I feel so sad for my little ones, but what can I do when the system and the law uphold the injustice for men in general?

By: JD

JD — Mon, 10 Sep 2007 12:24:40 +0000

Clare,

before you feel too sick, have a look at the way some (and for some read a hell of a lot of) women act.

Shelters for women are definitely necessary, but so is the relationship between a father and his children.

By: Clare

Clare — Mon, 27 Aug 2007 19:14:55 +0000

As someone whos had my a*s handed to me by a former boyfriend, this makes me sick.
That someone would use something like this for gain is disgusting.

By: Curiepoint

Curiepoint — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:51:17 +0000

You’re kidding, right?

Services, laws, and other special considerations exclusive to women are by their very definition helping the deceitful.

By: Sick Boi

Sick Boi — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 16:25:53 +0000

Great story!! Glad to see some new stuff on the site!! Keep up the great work guys.