In response to an earlier comment, yes, birth control increases the risk of breast cancer (esp. for the older gals who smoke). I, along with many other women, wish this wasn’t the case. To be honest, birth control hasn’t been liberating at all, not for me anyway. I’ll save you the personal details, but birth control does more than alter our selection of men and keep us from becoming preggers. For instance, birth control causes nausea, vomiting, weight gain (a huge issue for women and their men), vaginal dryness (another issue), depression (don’t get me started on that relationship killer), spotting of blood, and *DRUM ROLL* an over decrease in s*x drive. That’s just to name a few, however. What about those of us, like me, who need to be on birth control for reasons beyond mere contraception? Well, we’re s**t up a creek and bound to be single because our depressed, overweight asses don’t want to have s*x. Interesting that a little pill that was supposed to liberate women sexually has cause so many s*x related issues.

I’m only 21, and I’ve been on birth control for 7 years because of personal problems. However, I’ve stopped taking them to save my relationship. Granted, things are going to suck for me, but at least my boyfriend will get more action. More action = happier boyfriend. He’ll just have to be okay with wearing c*****s.

One last comment — Rich, we can all be replaced.

There is a difference between ‘play domination’ and ‘true domination’ and the successful non-alpha males that learn this difference are the likeliest to be successful.
This doesn’t mean that adultery is a good idea, since honesty, honor, and fidelity are still highly valued traits, but this DOES mean that a male needs to ensure that their options remain open.

What this means is that you should make sure that you maintain control over your life, not your wife. If you allow your lady to control you through s*x, finances, social manipulation, or even guilt you have become immediately less attractive in her eyes. This does not mean that you should diss responsibilities, but that you need to make sure that YOU are the one that chooses to maintain these responsibilities instead of letting her dictate them to you.

You need to stop taking things for granted. And you have to make sure that she does not take them for granted either. ‘saturday night s*x’ is a bad idea, each attempt should be a seduction, not a grind… for both you and for her. If that means you need to ‘cut her off for a while’ then you should do so so that she realizes that you are your own person.

Two married people do not become ‘whole’, they are still two people who simply chose to take the same path for their life with each other. Reaffirm constantly that you are both your own person and that you are with her because you choose to…not because you have no choice.

It’s a delicate, tough bridge to travel on, but the rewards are certainly worth the trip in the long run. especially for those that are not gifted with monstrous abs and a monster chin.

(Hint, it also helps if you try dating girls that are not particularly interested in the pill)

Not only is the pill to blame, but so is feminism, rejection of Christian values, and the denial of innate masculine and feminine hard-wiring (manifested in behavior). Put simply, many women don’t behave like real women these days, and likewise, many men don’t behave like real men. People are confused as to their true nature and our roles are all screwed up thanks to the influences mentioned at the start of this post. My generation (I am 32) on down is paying the price for something that we didn’t create, but have been force-fed through post-1960s socialization.

Women are not designed to mannishly engage in casual s*x with multiple, temporary partners, chase after men, or put objects (i.e. career and material things) before people (i.e. relationships). Likewise, men are not designed to be s*x-crazed skirt-chasers bent on sticking it to as many women as they can. Evolution is a farce and doesn’t satisfactorily address a vital component of human nature: we are spiritual as well as physical beings. We all seem to forget that, and treat each other like soulless animals without dignity and respect.

Nonetheless, none of this surprising nor accidental: I believe that what we are now facing was by design. It’s sad, but there are enough of us good ones–men and women–out there to tap into our true identities and build faithful and fruitful relationships with each other.

I know, I was that guy for 50 years. At age 50 I decided to finally get over my fear of approaching and meeting women and my life has never been better! I’m not some great-looking, aggressive, pushy guy, I’ve just learned to be more fun and social. Maybe a newer kind of Alpha male.

Once she knows and understands that you could go out and get a date with someone new tonight, she loses all control over you. You choose to be with her because she makes you happy and she’s fun. She knows that if she shows her b**** side too often that you can just find someone else.

She has to feel that you have options. And it’s not something you can tell her, she has to see and and feeling it in the way you interact with other people.

It’s obvious that a kind of chaos develops with female s****l selection while they are on the Pill, as the whole dynamic of s****l selection for procreation is discarded.

I’d be interested in how a controlled, confined dog population would behave if the females were on chemicals that prevented ovulation.

Would the male dogs “stopped trying” and become apathetic towards the female dogs when they see their biological destiny is being bypassed? Would it have any unexpected consequences?

I agree with the article though; s****l “me me me” comes first over anything else, like future plans/children. Women are notorious for “living in the moment” while most men actually plan their futures.

hmmm…

And, good point Rev Porkchops!

While that was another long read, it was very interesting. There’s one thing that is obvious, the relationship game is f****d up. Whether it is the pill, the government playing the role of the surrogate father, or biased law and policies, it’s looking pretty bad. And the media does not help at all. So yeah, it doesn’t take a research to see that the pill significantly changed society but I guess the details help.

Off topic:: I just recently saw the beginning of Scream 2 again and the opening was sad. The girlfriend asked her boyfriend for money to purchase popcorn. He replied, “Don’t you have your own money?” To which she quickly pointed out, “Yes, I have my own money. I need yours for popcorn.”

He sighed and coughed up the money.

Thats why I have zero sympathy for women who exercise no rational criteria for selecting men. And they complain when a bad boy bends ‘em over and gives them the business with no romance or consideration, using them like wh*res and chucking them. When you lay down with pigs you too will smell!

Then they whine to Mr. Save-A-Hoe to take care of them.

Man, that is the sort of opinion that give the MRA’s a bad name.

Women are like that because because they make the choice to be b*****s. They w***e around, and generally cause havoc in peoples lives because it is all a little game to them. They love the sort of attention they get when they hurt a man.

Sure biology plays a role, but it seems women have had more than their fair share of choice in the matter to become the worthless ****** that they are now days.