Comments on: The Anti-Male Shaming Tactics Catalog

By: marie

marie — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 19:19:17 +0000

as much as i agree women can be petty, I’m thinking this website is a little extreme?
You’re complaining about women being feminists and sterotyping men, and at the same time, doing the exact same thing.
We’re all human beings, and for me, i think we all deserve to be treated equally. There is no should or shouldnt in a relationship. It’s always going to be whatever works. If you’re in a healthy relationship with a nice person, they shouldn’t be pulling this on you. They’re just a bunch of stupid guilt trips. (Note that males also use guilt trips?)
personally, i’ve never found it nessecary to use a line like these ones, because i’ve never been in a relationship that requires undermining my partner
SO, i vote we all grow up and treat one another better. There’s that old proverb that i like to use “Do unto others as you would have done unto you”
its very very true
and it works

By: Barnoz

Barnoz — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:08:33 +0000

Many of the shaming tactics centre around invalidation of the man’s perspective and emotions. They also seek to actually avoid debating the point!
Classic and effective, but not if you can recognise them and counter them!

By: andy

andy — Tue, 13 Nov 2007 17:52:46 +0000

To my way of thinking being a man means living your life the way that you want to, so any time that some one levels one of these accusations against you just smile, nod and say “yeah and i’m still going to/not going to do it” (delete as applicable whatever it may be) once you have resolved to not let a woman have power over you – she doesn’t.

By: Sick Boi

Sick Boi — Thu, 07 Jun 2007 16:51:47 +0000

WoW! Thank you so much for this resource! In just the 3 days that I have had to use this as a resource, it has helped me twice and I am sure it will many more times in the future!!! I was charged with being bitter on my blog by my wife’s feminist friends who hide behind the flag of equality. She was telling me, I was bitter because I was upset at high pressure sales to raise money for breast cancer research when all I wanted to buy was a cup of coffee. The sales people wouldn’t drop the issue so I posted on it in my blog. And the attacks started flying. So I went to my new favorite site for defensive weaponry (dumpyourwifenow.com) and quoted code red while stating that my “feelings” are legitimate as any persons feelings are. I still have not gotten a reply back from her. I’m shocked really! LoL!

By: frank

frank — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 21:13:39 +0000

I am studying this like a bible! Whenever I feel upset about the unjust done to men, I come here and I feel so much better. Whenever I see a commerical, or heard about a movie that put men down, I come here and I feel better. Thanks to the creator and you guys.

By: JURO

JURO — Sat, 14 Apr 2007 08:29:12 +0000

tygr said it best. You’ll just sound like them in the end.

I can’t believe nobody has mentioned the best, and SAFEST response to all the shaming tactics: laughing.

A deep, loud, long, belly-filling laugh is the one response that will disarm the aggressor. They will be mystified and befuddled, but miffed that you obviously don’t take the b***h seriously. It’s also office-safe, so the boss won’t write you up on it.

Remember, the woman HATES YOU as a man and wants you to SUFFER. If you laugh, that sure ain’t suffering. And if SHE laughs too, YOU laugh again!!! Out-laugh the twit!

Also, all women want to express themselves and be heard, and as a bonus, have something to laugh about later with a Girlfriend. They’ll never want to brag about making a man laugh, never never never.

By: Mufpounder

Mufpounder — Thu, 12 Apr 2007 16:49:40 +0000

Thanks ! I have lived some of these tactics, and now just let her know that shame tactics no longer work, then tell her to just SHUP UP. Seems to work good for me : ) Now getting laid a lot more without all of the yack.

By: Truthslayer

Truthslayer — Tue, 03 Apr 2007 09:29:56 +0000

I can personally attest to the power of the Shaming Tactics.

On many a board I post on, once you use them against a woman, she then has to dig deeper and deeper to try to disarm you with a tactic you haven’t seen.

Sadly for women, the list covers them all, so when they attack, they are easily disarmed.

They then either concede by running away, claim that you are unreachable and stubborn, or just try a inane topic to lull your attention away from that spear of logic you just stuck them with.

Best thing to remember…majority of women THINK they are unique, but surprisingly have the SAME mentality They each think THEIR insult is rare and a real zinger. Once you show how boring, predictable and weak their emotional attack is, you can just walk away.

Let them have the last word…As Kenshiro says…you’re already defeated (yes I know what he actually says, but the filters won’t post it).

Truthslayer

By: tygr

tygr — Fri, 30 Mar 2007 03:33:41 +0000

In my experience, either women get it or they don’t. Either they are on your side or they’re not. No amount of evidence, attempts to convince them, logic or even pleas to empathy will sway them to your side. A feminist is a feminist, and if she were mentally sane, she would have objected to the basic premise to begin with. There is no way the 15 minute conversation you have is going to force her to change the very foundation of her life.

Actually I think this goes for any conversation topic with women. Don’t forget that they are morally superior to us mere humans. Regardless of what they believe, they are always correct. So don’t debate them. Small talk is just about the only thing you can discuss with women. Keep it to the weather, musical bands or other mundane topics.

If you play, you will lose. The only winning with AWs is not to play. The greatest thing is that your refusal to shower them with attention frustrates them much more than any slanderous accusations (non-legal) a woman can use against a man.

By: Neo

Neo — Mon, 19 Mar 2007 15:24:37 +0000

obbop: "In too many cases, after doing the above, a female student will raise her hand and declare that I have scared her." Calmly tell her: NOW you know what males feel like when they get sent to fight a war--against their will-- while the females get to stay nice & warm at home.