His House, Her Home Filled With Garbage
January 25, 2007
Countless women have divorced a man for drinking too much and becoming abusive. And rightly so. No one likes a nasty lush. And especially if the lush refuses rehab and any help. Some have divorced over smaller issues, like snoring too loud or excessive flatulence. And honestly who knows if that is the real reason and not simply a trigger to some underlying event. We don’t know. However, in this case, Ed’s wife suffers from OCD and has filled their house of love with garbage. He hung in there for many years and has had enough. What caught my eye, are the women out there who post about him “humiliating” his wife by filming his house and posting it on the internet for the world to see. These women feel he is not doing enough and should be there forever through her illness, blah blah blah. I can’t wait to read all the email that will come in on this story, “How would you like it if you get cancer or some other serious illness and your wife dumps you? Or better yet films you in your bed suffering on a Morphine drip for the world to see? How would you like it you woman hater?” Again the hypocrisy and double standards come to surface. If a woman dumps a man over drinking too much she made a smart move. Again no one really likes a spouse who is drunk all the time. If a man dumps a woman for filling up his home with garbage (after 5 years of trying to help her OCD, and the wife is refusing treatment) he is a scumbag for doing so. Some silly woman is bound to shout that this is equated as a man walking away from a woman who is suffering from breast cancer (or something to that affect). Every man I know, including myself would stand by their woman in times of battling cancer. For the women who will read this and feel for Ed’s wife our opinion is thus as follows: Ed needs to dump his wife now! And if possible have her lobotomized. And now onto Ed’s Plight.
“I love my wife very much but I can’t live like this any longer. About 5-6 years ago I finally got my wife to go with me to see a physiatrist. The Doctor diagnosed her as OCD. The Doctor also told her that she could prescribe some medication for her to help with her OCD. She wanted my wife to get a physical from her family doctor to be sure she prescribed the proper medication. My wife would never do that and we have been battling over this ever since.
I’ve tried everything I can think of to help her. I even hired a company, paid them $500, to come in and straighten up our home. She wouldn’t let them in! I bought books, joined chat rooms, and watched TV shows about this same problem. Out of desperation I wrote Dr Phil and Oprah. We were invited to appear on both shows but she wouldn’t go and they wouldn’t let me come by myself. Dr Phil even called her personally and she wouldn’t answer the phone.
As I previously stated, I love my wife very much but can’t live like this any longer. Next week I will seek an attorney to file for a divorce. I spoke to one about 3-4 years ago when I was at my wits end and she said this was a form of Spouse abuse. You will see pictures from 2000 thru last week and you can see it has only gotten worse. The house looks wonderful from the outside, but inside is a different story. Oprah calls it “Dirty Little Secrets”. If Sue would just spend half the time on the inside as she does on the outside, the house could be cleaned up. This house has 2800 sq. ft, 5 bed rooms 3 baths, swimming pool, 2 sheds and a hot tub. All this for 2 people!
Her children graduated college and left home about 7-8 years ago. I have been trying to get her to down size, ever since, so we don’t have to spend our golden years working in the yard and fixing up the house. That’s not how I want to spend my golden years. Hope this didn’t bore you too much but I want my friends to hear it from me first.”
Brothers, let’s break it down a bit here. If she was like this when he was dating her, then he is the biggest dumbass for marrying her. So we assume she hid her illness quite cleverly so she could land herself a sucker. It seems she revealed her true colors once she had got what she wanted, a legal binding contract and a rock (hopefully he was smart enough enough to give her cubic zirconium). This demented woman has made this man’s life a living hell with her illness. We don’t feel sorry for her one bit for the simple reason that she refuses to get any help! If she put forth even the tiniest effort to get some treatment, she wouldn’t have made it to dumpyourwifenow.com.
What gets our gander up, is that after many long years of marriage (1 or more is long enough) The poor soul in his own attempt to find comfort reaches out to the ever so benevolent internet community only to have other women chastise him. What the deuce is that all about?
This Sugar Tits assumes he is not doing enough for his wife and has let her down. Hey Sugar Tits! The wife refuses the help!:
“I think you need help just as much as she does. I hope she searches out the sites that were offered and makes some new friends and gets a good support system, because she sure isn’t getting it from you. You did the worst thing….outed her on the Net. How humiliating. It is a disease and she needs to join those that understand what she is going through. I wish I had her email, I’d write her. I think it is a good thing you are splitting. Why did you feel the need to do this to her? Last dig before leaving?”
Thankfully there are normal people out there with normal things to say:
“I feel your pain! I have fought the same fight for 5 years. My wife takes some meds for the disorder. They have not helped. I have hauled off truckloads, most stuff new. It reappeared as fast as I got it gone. I moved out 4/28/06 and I am currently negotiating divorce settlement. I could not tolerate any more. I was becoming physically sick from stress brought on from that environment (hypertension, high blood sugars, stress related etc..) Best of luck in bringing solution to your problem. You are not alone!”
“What a sad situation. I’m sorry for your pain. It seems like there is no other choice but to leave – a normal person cannot live like that, and sounds like you tried everything to help, but she just wasn’t willing.”
“Send her to the damn nut-house… electroshock therapy… lobotomy… anything… this woman needs medication!!!”
Looks like p***r night has been called off at Ed’s place for a while.