Comments on: Hello To The Miserable Married Men In The World! http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/ Divorce your wife and send her packing! We got the divorce help and divorce advice that you really need Sun, 08 Feb 2009 09:40:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.5 By: Stephen http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-5475 Stephen Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:40:42 +0000 #comment-5475 Justin, get it over with. Go for the divorce. I was physically and emotionally abused as a child by a sibling and it resulted in my becoming a doormat who sought everyone's approval. It took years to recover. After I turned 30 I refused to put up with anymore of it. No one, I repeat, no one should tolerate abuse. Screw the kids and screw the world. If you're being abused in your marriage get the hell out of it. The kids will be better off too. I'm beginning to ask some men on these blogs, "would you rather be miserable in a marriage or miserable outside of a marriage?" I'll take misery outside of marriage. At least I have the option of discovering ways to make myself happy. But you'll never be happy reporting to "the warden" every day. Justin, get it over with. Go for the divorce. I was physically and emotionally abused as a child by a sibling and it resulted in my becoming a doormat who sought everyone’s approval. It took years to recover. After I turned 30 I refused to put up with anymore of it. No one, I repeat, no one should tolerate abuse. Screw the kids and screw the world. If you’re being abused in your marriage get the hell out of it. The kids will be better off too. I’m beginning to ask some men on these blogs, “would you rather be miserable in a marriage or miserable outside of a marriage?” I’ll take misery outside of marriage. At least I have the option of discovering ways to make myself happy. But you’ll never be happy reporting to “the warden” every day.

]]> By: Graeme http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-5426 Graeme Thu, 03 Jan 2008 03:18:30 +0000 #comment-5426 Graeme I have to say that being married seemed all very nice at the start , but I have concluded that women seem to want to control your every movement , I'll never do it again. Graeme

I have to say that being married seemed all very nice at the start , but I have concluded that women seem to want to control your every movement , I’ll never do it again.

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]]> By: justin http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-4754 justin Fri, 23 Nov 2007 21:08:10 +0000 #comment-4754 I am married and hating it! I live with my wife and her son and her mother they both don't work and I pay all the bills and clean the house. I am afraid to get a divorce, but life now is horrible. Please I need some advice! I am married and hating it! I live with my wife and her son and her mother they both don’t work and I pay all the bills and clean the house. I am afraid to get a divorce, but life now is horrible. Please I need some advice!

]]> By: David http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-4320 David Sat, 10 Nov 2007 17:58:22 +0000 #comment-4320 Separating from my wife of nearly twenty years was hard in every way but I just couldn't put up with her sh*t any more. The first day she was gone I came home to an empty house which felt very sad, despite the fact that I knew, rationally, that I was better off without her. But the next day when I woke up it felt like Xmas morning! I'm not kidding -- no tension, no worry about what was coming down, just a feeling of anticipation, and -- dare I say it -- happiness. And since she's been gone I've had a great time. I no longer lose my temper with everyone, I have plenty of sex, and I can play the stereo, sleep in, do whatever the fuck I please. It's cost me a bundle -- a bit more than half my assets plus ongoing support payments -- but at least I get some benefit from the money I earn now; when I was married I got absolutely nothing but stress and grief. Separating from my wife of nearly twenty years was hard in every way but I just couldn’t put up with her sh*t any more. The first day she was gone I came home to an empty house which felt very sad, despite the fact that I knew, rationally, that I was better off without her.

But the next day when I woke up it felt like Xmas morning! I’m not kidding — no tension, no worry about what was coming down, just a feeling of anticipation, and — dare I say it — happiness.

And since she’s been gone I’ve had a great time. I no longer lose my temper with everyone, I have plenty of s*x, and I can play the stereo, sleep in, do whatever the f**k I please.

It’s cost me a bundle — a bit more than half my assets plus ongoing support payments — but at least I get some benefit from the money I earn now; when I was married I got absolutely nothing but stress and grief.

]]> By: Praxton http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-3884 Praxton Sat, 20 Oct 2007 23:56:51 +0000 #comment-3884 Too bad that the internet with all the wealth of information on how much of a lousy deal marriage is for men and how in general what worthless mates the most american women make was not widely available when I met my parasite of wife about 10 years ago. If I had had the benefit of this and other websites regarding such matters, I would have made a business decision not to get married or have children. Instead I made the mistake of marrying some financially impaired drama queen with an entitlement mentality and I have seen a good bit of my net worth evaporate. If I leave her I will likely lose half or more of what is left of my assets and be forced to pay unreasonable amounts of child support for my son. While I love my son and understand that I have an obligation to him - where's my wife's obligation to help support him? Why is it that a woman's dream of motherhood transalates into a man solely bearing the back breaking financial overhead and lifetime of being a wage slave. Too bad that the internet with all the wealth of information on how much of a lousy deal marriage is for men and how in general what worthless mates the most american women make was not widely available when I met my parasite of wife about 10 years ago. If I had had the benefit of this and other websites regarding such matters, I would have made a business decision not to get married or have children. Instead I made the mistake of marrying some financially impaired drama queen with an entitlement mentality and I have seen a good bit of my net worth evaporate. If I leave her I will likely lose half or more of what is left of my assets and be forced to pay unreasonable amounts of child support for my son. While I love my son and understand that I have an obligation to him – where’s my wife’s obligation to help support him? Why is it that a woman’s dream of motherhood transalates into a man solely bearing the back breaking financial overhead and lifetime of being a wage slave.

]]> By: Pognis http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-2512 Pognis Fri, 17 Aug 2007 14:11:14 +0000 #comment-2512 Great views! But well, living alone is also not a healthy choice. People may prefer to stay with animals (pets) than living alone. Great views! But well, living alone is also not a healthy choice. People may prefer to stay with animals (pets) than living alone.

]]> By: christy http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-1696 christy Sat, 07 Jul 2007 09:44:50 +0000 #comment-1696 What the hell are you idiots talking about? I love sex with my husband and yes I am good at it! But he is the one who is never in the mood. You can believe me or not, who cares! I am 5 ft 8, naturally blonde hair, blue eyes, size 2, was prom queen of my school. He says he loves me but never wants to (you know). How the hell is this happening? I am a very nice person. I've given him 2 beautiful children and have never got stretch marks anywhere or lost my intense need for sex. I have even offered to have a three-some with, if that would help... but no thankyou. Any advice? What the hell are you idiots talking about? I love s*x with my husband and yes I am good at it! But he is the one who is never in the mood. You can believe me or not, who cares! I am 5 ft 8, naturally blonde hair, blue eyes, size 2, was prom queen of my school. He says he loves me but never wants to (you know). How the hell is this happening? I am a very nice person. I’ve given him 2 beautiful children and have never got stretch marks anywhere or lost my intense need for s*x. I have even offered to have a three-some with, if that would help… but no thankyou. Any advice?

]]> By: mike http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-1398 mike Tue, 12 Jun 2007 02:01:52 +0000 #comment-1398 To MarriedNextWeek, Please follow your hunch and do the poor girl a favor by not marrying her. Men aren't meant to be married, especially in today's male/father bashing society. Men don't do it! After my divorce I finally started getting back on my feet (even though my ex cleaned me out of everything I worked for all my life). I finally had a nice apartment, decent furniture, and some of my income. Heck, I was even investing and saving for my son's college education. Being stupid, I thought I'd be happier the 2nd time around. It ain't true... I find myself missing the freedom of sleeping alone, or with someone whenever I wanted and wherever I wanted. Missing the ability to go on a business trip and have fun without having to check in with the warden. Worse, yet I find myself broke again, while both my ex (and new wife) are sitting pretty. Don't be stupid marriage is against the natural order of things. To MarriedNextWeek,

Please follow your hunch and do the poor girl a favor by not marrying her. Men aren’t meant to be married, especially in today’s male/father bashing society.

Men don’t do it! After my divorce I finally started getting back on my feet (even though my ex cleaned me out of everything I worked for all my life). I finally had a nice apartment, decent furniture, and some of my income. Heck, I was even investing and saving for my son’s college education. Being stupid, I thought I’d be happier the 2nd time around. It ain’t true… I find myself missing the freedom of sleeping alone, or with someone whenever I wanted and wherever I wanted. Missing the ability to go on a business trip and have fun without having to check in with the warden. Worse, yet I find myself broke again, while both my ex (and new wife) are sitting pretty.

Don’t be stupid marriage is against the natural order of things.

]]> By: MarriedNextWeek http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2006/08/27/hello-to-the-miserable-married-men-in-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-764 MarriedNextWeek Sat, 14 Apr 2007 19:25:32 +0000 #comment-764 You guys are freakin me out...I'm 23 and I take the plunge next week at the courthouse. I'm thinkin twice about this. You guys are freakin me out…I’m 23 and I take the plunge next week at the courthouse. I’m thinkin twice about this.

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